29 5 / 2012
"If you’re unhappy at the amount of sexual opportunity in your life, don’t blame the women. Instead, make sure they have equal access to power, wealth, and status. Then watch what happens."
23 5 / 2012
"Love and lust are as different from each other as red wine and blue cheese, but because they can also complement one another splendidly, they get conflated with amazing, dumbfounding regularity."
23 5 / 2012
Self-sublimating Obsessive Interdependence Syndrome (SOIS)
A disorder characterized by a group of symptoms that present themselves in the subject after coming in close contact with a person they perceive as emotionally stimulating and/or physically attractive. Symptoms include:
- Almost continuous ruminating and obsessive thoughts focused on the well-being and perceived reciprocated favor of one other person.
- Self-sacrificing ideation focused on one other person. This includes expressing a willingness to allow ones own death in order to preserve the life of another.
- Dissociation from the self as a singular entity, signified by increased usage of the pronoun ‘We.’
- Overwhelming sense of safety and security that causes the patient to have low reactivity to stressors.
- Extreme and long lasting emotional distress in reaction to actual or threatened separation.
23 5 / 2012
Actually seen and been on both sides of a relationship? Its crazy. Its like in movies when the audience knows what one character doesn’t know. Its called dramatic irony. Relationships aren’t meant to be easy and all fun. They are meant so you have one person to go through all of your problems with. Its meant to be a struggle and in between those is when you get the happiness together, knowing that you made it through something. Seeing both sides of a relationship is scary. Cause you know what can fix it. Its almost like you just wanna make them puppets and fix it yourself. Being too comfortable is not always a good thing. When you get too comfortable you think its okay to always take and you start expecting things and thinking that’s its always gotta be in your favor, but its not. The other person needs love and attention too. Communication. Thats a Bitch. Its too hard to communicate when one person is stuck in one mindset and not trying to understand how the other feels. The other gives up cause why try when you get everything turned at you. I just wish people would let love over rule all. Not everybody gets that chance to have love, to feel love so when you get it, don’t take it for granted. Its too powerful to just let it slip away because of some stupid non communication or not being able to change your ways. Thats just my opinion, but what do I know? I’ve never been in a relationship.
17 5 / 2012
When I told you I loved you, I meant it. The very first time, the next time, the time after that, and even now. As you lay there peacefully next to me, I think of what we could be and what we have. Ultimately we are happy. We are enamored with one another and can’t get enough. I want to be with you every second of every day and when I’m not with you I am longing, just waiting until I can feel your soft lips against mine again. You made a big sacrifice to be with me and trust me, I will never take that for granted. Ever. You have believed in me when others didn’t. And you have always been there in my times of need. I love you to the ends of this earth. The thought of a life without you hurts my soul and makes me cry. I long for your touch, your kiss, your presence. And I long for each new day to spend with you because there is always something new for me to fall in love with and you make me feel so alive. I love you.
16 5 / 2012
"Armed with a fake name and email account, along with private showcase photos pulled from Google images (with the filters off, if you know what I mean), I set up my AshleyMadison.com account. I never posted a public photo. I wrote nothing about myself but what was required (location, age, height, weight) and said only that I was considering sleeping with a married man. I wasn’t sure if anyone would contact me, considering that my vagueness was at worst suspicious and at best unattractive.
Two and a half days later, I had over two thousand messages in my inbox."
16 5 / 2012
"I really hoped to keep this an open group, but as expected, the men are quickly outnumbering the women. For now, invites are only available to the ladies!"
04 5 / 2012
“It’s often said that every song, every poem, every novel, every painting ever created is in some way “about” love. What this really means is that love is a central theme, an underlying preoccupation, in humanity’s greatest works.”